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'Friends' doesn’t prepare you for adulthood. 'Ally McBeal' does

Rewatching two defining shows from the late ‘90s as a thirtysomething, it turns out one is far more honest about adulthood than the other. (Spoiler: It's not the one about friends.)

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Linked in to left behind

The pressure to have a personal brand before you have a career is real. On LinkedIn, being young and still figuring it out can feel like a public failure.

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The age of overlapping careers: Yes, side jobs are now necessary to survive

One full-time job, two freelance gigs and the gnawing feeling that it still might not be enough. This is what stability looks like now.

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When a gift is never just a gift

We exchange gifts thinking it's a showcase of care. But somewhere between the ribbon and the Instagram story, it can become a form of debt.

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Performing hunger: Notes from behind the café curtain

Is restraint without intent inherently noble in the eyes of the divine, or are we just hungry for the optics?

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Sorry for eating: The month of restraint and our urge to control

Ramadan asks us to practice restraint. But somewhere along the way, we started asking everyone else to practice it too.

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A pick-me girl: The woman who wasn’t like other girls

How do you learn to pick yourself when you’ve spent your whole life performing for someone else’s approval?

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The hidden burnout behind self-care

From early morning routines to endless wellness trends, the pressure to recover properly may be exhausting us even more.

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Growing in love, shrinking in self

When your relationship reshapes your habits, preferences and identity, how do you know whether you’re growing together or if you’re just disappearing?

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From damsel to baddie: A survival plan for apocalypse

After a birthday hike up Mount Gede, I realized I’d be the first to die in the apocalypse. So I started planning.

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On the winning side of comparison

The world has become a better place for women, yet it still finds endless ways to pit us against each other.

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Crying in an office toilet stall and calling it adulthood

In a culture that values productivity over people, many of us end up grieving in silence between meetings. Maybe the system is broken, not you.

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Living with borrowed certainty: A Gen Z reflection on the climate of our times

When dry roads feel like a gift, what kind of future are we really holding on to?